AHA!!!

I just had a very profound (not kidding) thought. The sister with whom I have trouble is also the only one who really has ever held me accountable. Everyone else has always excused my forgetfulness about birthdays, anniversaries, etc. She called me today to thank me for the anniversary gift. I, of course, had not called her last night to wish her a Happy 25th Wedding Anniversary. I actually had planned on calling, but my mom said that they were out to dinner and I fell asleep. She has never actually told me off, but I know she gets her digs in a passive-aggressive way. She still can be a bitch, but maybe I will try to be more attentive to things in the future. As I just said today, DS is 18 and must learn to compensate for his problems. Hell, I am 46 and still have let this slide by, I am ashamed to say. Wake up and smell the coffee!